{"id":12325,"date":"2019-02-22T08:08:14","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T14:08:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livinglibrarian.com\/?p=12325"},"modified":"2019-05-17T18:34:22","modified_gmt":"2019-05-17T23:34:22","slug":"detachment-not-denial-is-a-good-thing-maria-chambers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livinglibrarian.com\/new\/detachment-not-denial-is-a-good-thing-maria-chambers\/","title":{"rendered":"Detachment (not Denial) is a Good Thing~ Maria Chambers"},"content":{"rendered":"

Many of us, as we move into a 5D experience, are feeling more detached from the world outside our door, the world of duality. No, not groundbreaking news. \u00a0It doesn\u2019t mean we don\u2019t enjoy the environments we find ourselves in, or enjoy watching the news from time to time. \u00a0Sometimes we like the feeling we get. \u00a0We like getting ourselves triggered, because it helps us through what is a challenging phase of this process of transformation \u2013 the boredom.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Humans don\u2019t like being bored. \u00a0They prefer drama over complete boredom. \u00a0But, boredom is a natural stage of this process, and no, it\u2019s not permanent. \u00a0As we allow spirit more and more into our bodies and our lives, we begin to feel a sense of fulfillment from the inside out. \u00a0It\u2019s vastly different from trying to feel fulfilled from the outside in.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t mean we can\u2019t participate in things in the world, \u00a0but we will be gravitating toward more things that bring us a sense of joy, and less and less toward drama.<\/p>\n

When I read about things going on in politics, and especially about women\u2019s rights, I can get pretty triggered. \u00a0At the same time, I recognize they are not my issues. \u00a0And, I recognize that I am here as a female to help shift the consciousness around how women see themselves.<\/p>\n

But there is the eternal me that knows it is what it is, that the world is where it is at, and railing against it isn\u2019t the answer either.<\/p>\n

So, what we have is an awareness of what is happening, that there is an imbalance on the planet toward the patriarchy. \u00a0There is no denying that fact. \u00a0All the positive thinking in the omniverse isn\u2019t going to change that fact.<\/p>\n

But, at the same time, I am detached from that fact.<\/p>\n

This awakening process isn\u2019t about being in denial of what goes on here on Planet Earth. \u00a0But it is about being detached from it. \u00a0There is a big difference.<\/p>\n

As a conscious human, you can see many different perspectives. \u00a0There is the perspective that the toxic masculine is attempting to perpetuate the suppression and the erosion of the rights more than ever of the feminine on the planet.<\/p>\n

And, you can also see it as the Divine Feminine doing its thing. \u00a0It\u2019s here and assisting the planet to balance itself and what we are seeing is the fears of the Patriarchy doubling down. \u00a0Light is disrupting old systems. \u00a0And what can be older than the patriarchal system?<\/p>\n

AN AWAKENED HUMAN<\/strong><\/p>\n

An awakened human doesn\u2019t need to look at the news to see what is happening because they can sense where the planet is at. \u00a0The awakened human has developed an awareness that transcends anything they can read, hear or see.<\/p>\n

An awakened human has learned to work with energies. \u00a0They are adept at working with the light and the dark. \u00a0They don\u2019t allow the dark to overwhelm them, because they understand what the dark actually is. \u00a0They have mastered their own dark emotions. \u00a0Their own sadness, their own doubt, anger, shame, their own wounds.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t deny those emotions, no. Not at all. \u00a0They are aware of them. \u00a0But they are not allowing them to be their truth.<\/p>\n

People are trying to deny their own emotions all the time. Which is why the are projecting those emotions onto others.<\/p>\n

Someone told me once, that there is no sexism\u2026..that \u201cWe men love women!\u201d \u00a0<\/em>But this same man also said that women are being irresponsible if they need an abortion, and that he does not want to pay taxes for women who need abortions.<\/p>\n

This man was incensed and insulted when he was told he had some nice feminine qualities.<\/p>\n

But he insisted that if he had any underlying issues, he would not allow them to interfere with our relationship. \u00a0But, I told him that you can\u2019t leave your issues at the door, especially if you haven\u2019t faced them.<\/p>\n

So, there is denial, and there is detachment. \u00a0And I don\u2019t mean a dissociative detachment as in schizophrenia. \u00a0I am talking about the healthy detachment that results in allowing all the emotions to be, and to also not take them personally.<\/p>\n

As we know, it\u2019s not something you can learn in a book. \u00a0It\u2019s something you have to experience first hand, by going through the awakening process.<\/p>\n

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Toward the end of my mother\u2019s life, she became detached from her reality. \u00a0She sat in a nursing home, and it appeared she didn\u2019t know who I was. She no longer spoke, and she stared off with a bit of a smile on her face.<\/p>\n

It was sad for me as the human, but for her, it was the best place for her to be. \u00a0She was slowly feeling out her new non-physical environment, and slowly detaching from this one.<\/p>\n

And looking around at that nursing home, which was sadly one of the top rated ones in the area, it was a blessing she wasn\u2019t any longer focused locally.<\/p>\n

There was a part of her that was still aware of her surroundings, but chose to no longer engage with that world.<\/p>\n

Those of us who chose the accelerated path are sort of doing the same, without having to do the nursing home scenario. \u00a0In fact, we are integrating all of the parts of us that were lost, and wounded. We as the human get to have the benefit of the other, eternal part of us.<\/p>\n

We don\u2019t need to wait till we transition to feel those benefits.<\/p>\n

But the tricky part is what we are experiencing now, in these physical bodies, and in these minds. \u00a0Notice I didn\u2019t say\u00a0our\u00a0<\/em>physical bodies or\u00a0our\u00a0<\/em>minds. \u00a0Because, they are really not ours. \u00a0For the most part, they are inherited. \u00a0We are in the process of developing a new body of consciousness, which includes a crystalline body and mind.<\/p>\n

And a new, sovereign heart.<\/p>\n

As women especially, we are lightening ourselves up substantially. \u00a0 Letting go of the walking wounded in our life. \u00a0There is no room for self-sacrifice, of suffering or hand-holding in the place we are going.<\/p>\n

Sympathy and even empathy dissolve into self-love.<\/p>\n

Many woman have been in a kind of denial, in which they believe their role is to assuage the male anger, and to make others more comfortable in their unconscious state. \u00a0They are denying their own magnificence. \u00a0Their own strength.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s all changing now, beginning with those of us on the forefront.<\/p>\n

And, it\u2019s done from a place of healthy detachment, not denial. \u00a0Detachment from the world outside our door, and from the inherited thoughts and emotions that swirl around in the mind.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a good thing<\/p>\n

\u00a9 Copyright 2018 Maria Chambers, all rights reserved. Please feel free to share this content with others but maintain the article\u2019s integrity by copying it unaltered and by including the author and source website link: Maria Chambers\u00a0http:\/\/www.soulsoothinsounds.wordpress.com<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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